Are you an Actor or yourself in your leadership?

Are you an Actor or yourself in your leadership?

Do we complicate things too much sometimes?
Do we complicate too much how a leader should act and behave? Maybe we sometimes say that leadership is complicated and hard? But what do we really mean by that to ourself and others?

Is it a role that can be acted?
Maybe we believe that to be a leader is to act in a role? Well, isn´t that a profession in itself? It is called acting and performed by actors.
Maybe we have too many leaders acting as an actor? That may be easier because you take some kind of a privilegie to set yourself outside of the role. You think that it is a profession and you don´t have to participate? Is that even possible?

Maybe we sometimes
– Feels somewhat unsecure how to do and behave as a leader?
– Believe that it is a role to play to be a good leader?
– Puts on an armor not to be reached?
– Has the attitude that feelings belongs at home not at work?
– Believe that leadership is just for the ones that has a formal role as a leader?
– That it is the leaders in the leading management groups that should lead the others?
– Believe that a leadership course is all that is needed?
– Believe that if I will help others to change everything will work out well.
– But I don´t need to change myself?
– Believe that to change is more or less easy?

Usually and always
If we simply the way we look upon issues, things and situations , it will work out well and what needs to be done becomes more clear.
When we realize that leadership is in ourselves. The way we feel and are comfortable how we lead ourselves in our own life. When we feel good about it, others seem to like the way we behave too.

It gets even easier to develop my own leadership when we ask for help. People wants to help you!

Why not reflect upon
What do you do when ”you are yourself”? And you get the feedback that others sees, hears and feels that too.

It is hard to be someone else and nothing anyone will recommend, right?
Do you at work act as an actor or do you not, in the role you have?
Do you believe and see proofs within yourself that you are more altruistic in your behaviors than egoistic?

If you are more altruistic, others like to be around you and together with you. Why? Because they see, hear and feel that you care about them. They feel seen and confirmed.
Are you transparent and share information, ideas and knowledge that others can contribute from? Do you GIVE just to GIVE without expecting to get?
If you do, others will give to you and you will be pleased and surprised too.

Do you think that you and some others knows what is best? Do you also know that you are one of 6 billion others? What happens if they have the same opinion as you do? Maybe you instead believe that the truth is relative and the best truth is to share, discuss and have a dialogue?

So, If you ask yourself.
What behaviors do you have and are they coherent with what you are thinking and feeling. What answers do you get and proofs to yourself?



What is your story in your life?

What is your story in your life?


Your story is the right story for you, right now
Maybe you agree with me when I say that your story in your life is the right story for you, right now. But maybe you sometimes feel like you need a better story?
But maybe you do not know how you can change it. It feels more or less impossible to change it?

Well, It all depends what you believe in.

I had a story and then another one
When I look upon my life I know realize that I have had different stories. My initial story does not exist anymore. Sometimes they changed a little bit and sometimes the story that I started with was totally different than the one to come. When they changed they all changed due to what I believed in. In fact I live another lifestory now than the one I believed was my story to come.

My stories have changed for different reasons. But before they changed I was often totally convinced that they couldn´t change. Do you also have had that experience?

My stories and their scripts
My different stories have had different scripts. What they all have in common is that they are based on what I believed in, in exact that situation at specific time.
Sometimes I was so eager to try that I troed because I really wanted to try, although I was not convinced that I could manage the challenge I tried to reach. But I did, and my belief was changed. I was proven wrong and succeeded.

The believes of what I am capable of have changed over the years. My bottom ground values are the same but I haven´t before understood how much they meant to me. By trying, trying, trying and trying I have conquered my doubts, fears and also reached my goals and dreams.
I know believe in this story
Too many times I have proven wrong, that I can do much more than I believed in before I tried it. It has happened so many times that I now know that what I am capable of is all in my mind. I also know that it is the same for anyone else.
What is your story you want to tell yourself? Your own story, your organisation, your company, etc etc.

Our misson is that we want to help you
All of us have had this experience to develop and brake our preconditioned truths about what we were capable of. You know that you have had those experiences too.

If you feel that you want
So if you feel that you are longing for another story in your life! We are here to help you find your story of your life. Our experiences may give you new perspectives, new believes to change your story in your life, your organisation, your company etc etc.
Our mission is to help you to live the story that you dream of. The good thing is that obstacles can be altered, believes can be changed, if you want to. Do you? Please let´s get in touch.